There are 4 stressors that impact almost every family: parenting the children, nurturing the marriage, sharing household responsibilities and managing family finances. Each of these stressors has the potential to cause a family an enormous amount of grief. But, well-functioning families make sure that:
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both parents are a team and cooperate with each other regarding the children•
the marriage is a priority and time is set aside for being a couple•
responsibilities for running the house are shared•
the adults work out how to handle family financesStrategies for reducing financial stress
These strategies can help a family work together to reduce financial stress.
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Look at each new year as an opportunity to set financial goals for the coming year.Vacations, a new roof, a widescreen television, new clothes for the family and other major items need to be prioritized. Few families can afford to have everything they want when they want it. Decide ahead of time what you want to spend your money on in the next year.
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Ask your partner how much money he needs to have saved in order to be comfortable.Compare your amounts and come up with a plan. If you're a saver and your partner is a spender, then come up with a middle ground you both can agree on.